10 MarQuestions Answered…

What is your ultimate goal in life?
That’s a good question. To be honest my ultimate goal was very simple. I just wanted to touch someone in some sort of way. When I was younger, I didn’t exactly want to be famous but I knew I wanted to be “someone” and I wanted to have a voice. I used to fantasize about me at podiums touching the lives of women across the world. Sorta like Oprah. I also want to go down in the history books as the first african american woman to do something. What exactly, I don’t know…

Can one actually become successful from blogging or is it just more to that?
Perez Hilton is a prime example of someone that is successful from blogging and to be completely honest, Read the rest of this entry »

08 MarKnow Your Status…

This year on World Aids Day I posted a story of a girl who had contracted HIV from her fiance who knew he had it. The whole purpose of the post was to raise awareness of HIV and to encourage everyone to get tested.

The truth of the matter is, I had never been tested for HIV/AIDS…and I hadn’t had a physical in like three years. Out of those 3 years, I had been celibate for two but still…the point is, I didn’t know my status. So who am I to tell someone else to get tested?

So I got tested Read the rest of this entry »

08 MarAsk Away…

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A young lady by the name of Tanaya sent me this ear lace in the mail. I think it’s pretty hot.  You can view her stuff at http://lacebytanaya.com

I think it’s great when young women find something creative and turn it into a business venture.  A friend of mine called the other day and she was saying how the people at her job get on her nerves and how she wish she could start a business but she doesn’t know what she could do. I said well you did a “GREAT” job painting your bedroom. You could start there. Sometimes our gifts our right under our nose.

I mean I started in my aunt’s guest room, broke as hell, updating a wordpress blog with stuff I found interesting in the celeb world and turned it into a business. Who would have thought?

Anyway, I try to update this thing more often but at times I have trouble finding inspiration and things to talk about. In the meantime, if you want to know anything about me, the business, etc etc ask away and I’ll answer your questions.

07 MarThe People In Your Life…

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I live by this. Actually it is the reason why I relocated. At one point, I somehow surrounded myself with a lot of unhappy people and it became toxic.  I now feel free.

I have a friend who currently is in production for their very own show on a cable network that will be released around the same time as their new book

I have another friend who is in numerous magazines, has a book deal, two shows, numerous sponsorships & endorsements

How can you settle for mediocrity when you are surrounded by greatness? You can’t…

People, can have the strongest affect on our lives. I believe that you become, the people, you hang out with. The people you associate with and share ideas with have a major influence on how you choose to act upon or not act upon your dreams.

Always surround yourself with positive “can do” people. If you can’t find anyone like this, Read the rest of this entry »

01 MarThe Best Things In Life Are Free…Or Close To It

I have a dilemma.

I met this guy.

I was at the Spa last week. Had just sat in the chair to get my make up and hair done when a guy walks in. All this swagger. Walks straight over to me and sits down. Says he would pay for everything. Whatever I decided I wanted done. Of course he was kidding…or fronting. We exchange numbers. And that was that.

He called me the next day and invited me Read the rest of this entry »

01 MarPinky…

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24 FebLive And Let Them Write About It…

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Sunday @ Lucky Strike Bowling Alley

Conversation between me and my sister today:

Sister: What Are You Doing Tonight
Me: I’m staying in for the rest of the week. My blog has been lagging

Sister: It sure was.U gonna order out for dinner or you wanna make something

Me: Nah I’m probably gonna order carry out. I have so much to do in the next few weeks. I’m have to launch my store and my new website. I’m grinding.

Sister: See that’s what I like to hear. No more staying out and sleeping in for a while. That lifestyle will always be there. U can come back to it when you make that Milli

Me: Oh I’ll be back to it. A small part of me wants to prove Read the rest of this entry »

24 FebI hate that…

I .

Just.

CAN’T

Leave.

Him.

ALone…..

23 FebWild Winter Nights…

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I was on a 48 Hour Champagne Diet….

My official Welcome …
Weekend Highlights: Spa Day with the girls, Finding a nail shop ,The Food (everywhere we eat is always soooo good), Beyonce and Jay in the club, (we kept grabbing her bodyguard Julius’s booty..lol.) Waking up to sun and the beach

Lowlights: Having to walk the dog after a long night of drinking (that sucks…), getting cussed out for not making the Trey/Jay concert in time.  Food places that don’t deliver on Sundays. Grrrrr

Next weekend, I have a date with my sex in the city dvd series. I got a lot of catching up to do and I need to just chill….

15 FebValentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day this year was AWESOME!!! I think what made it one of the best was the fact that I had no plans. But something definitely turned in to something.

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Yesssss!!! Good food, Drinks and great conversation. Surprisingly I wasn’t tore up the next day. I won’t go into detail about this Valentine’s Day as it has put me on an emotional high to a great start in the MIA but I will share my most memorable Valentine’s Day story. Read the rest of this entry »